I went to a baby shower this past weekend. They had a book in which you could write advice for the first-time mom. It very much made me
think, what would I tell myself 2.5 years ago? I’ve compiled a few tips that I
wish I had known, or had listened to, when Mason was born. (And in some cases,
when Sebastian was born.)
Cleaning can wait. The laundry, the dishes, the toys,
anything, can wait. I knew too this but felt I had to accomplish more than just
taking care of the baby. Now I think…WHAT?! More than JUST taking care of the
baby. Right, because it’s that simple...give yourself more credit!
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| Mason - 2 months old |
Sleep when the baby sleeps, if at all possible. There is actually science behind it! Check it out. Sleeping at the same time is much
easier with one baby at home of course. With Mason, I napped like a champ
whenever I could. Once Sebastian came along, I had a newborn and a 19 month
old…that was a different story. Take it when you can.
Be present. Put down the phone/tablet/laptop, turn the TV
off and enjoy. These moments are so fleeting that you need to soak it all in.
This doesn’t mean you need to photograph every second of their life either. Get a few great shots of their first step, the mess they made trying to eat or
whatever it may be. Then look up and enjoy.
Sebastian's first steps
I know these all sound cheesy and typical, but they are so
easy to forget. Those were the tips I left for my friend. Here is some more great advice I found from cafemom!
What would you tell a first time parent?
-A
