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When you break it down, between the hormones, fear, joy,
exhaustion and anticipation, she doesn’t know how to feel. I can attest to
that. I was pregnant with Mason, in my first trimester, over Christmas in 2010.
We hadn’t told anyone yet, so I was trying to keep in the crazy. I remember
watching TV with my mom and bawling at a Canadian Tire commercial. I couldn’t
even speak about the commercial or I would tear up. Anything sentimental would
open the floodgates.
Here is the video:
Another reason some women are seen as crazy or over emotional can be from the unsolicited tips, questions and comments from strangers, friends and family. I found this list of what not to say to a pregnant woman from parenting.com.
The top ones I experienced were:
- You don't look that pregnant! (Trust me...I am.)
- Are you going to nurse/cloth diaper/co-sleep…(It’s my choice regardless.)
- Can I touch your belly?
Believe me when I say you’d be lucky to be asked permission.
Many people seem to think your baby belly is public domain. Imagine rubbing
theirs back? I bet it wouldn’t go over well.
In case you are trying to compliment a pregnant woman; here
is another list of tips on what may be insulting. It may not seem like a big
deal to you, but there are many sensitive subjects! Check it out here from
Huffington Post.
This isn’t meant to discourage complimenting a woman at what
can be considered the most beautiful part of life, but tread lightly. She means
well…try carrying a watermelon under your shirt for months with all the lovely side
effects, and forget seeing your feet…
Keep strong mamas, and those who deal with mamas, it will all be worth it!
