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Thursday, 13 February 2014

Motherhood Myths

Frabz.com
 
If you don't agree with the myths of motherhood, you must be doing it wrong. Maybe you just weren’t cut out for motherhood. OR…you are HUMAN.  

I found a great list on mommyish.com. The highlights that give me flashbacks are below.

Motherhood means being deliriously happy all the time

Delirious? You betcha! Happy? Check! Both simultaneously, 24/7? No way. To assume it’s all going to be sunshine and rainbows is naïve. It is hard work. Sleep deprivation was the hardest for me. At 4am, while I would be rocking my baby back to sleep for the eighth time…he’d smile at me. My first thought was always ‘you're lucky you’re cute.’

Your maternity leave is like a vacation

Maybe if you are vacationing at a resort that has alarms that go off every 3-4 hours and you have to decipher what they mean and how to make it stop…all day and night. Forget relaxing, sleeping, showering and eating regularly. Not happening.

If you’re not completely fulfilled by motherhood, something must be wrong with you

Team Umizoomi
Babies are wonderful. Being a mother has made me a better person. However, I am still an independent thinking, thriving human being. I need more mental stimulation than cooing with my infant, or watching endless episodes of Team Umizoomi (Mason LOVES Team Umizoomi.) and that is ok.

Don’t let mom guilt consume you. Does it all seem scary? Maybe. But it’s the biggest thrill of my life. Watching your children grow, learn and love is all you can ask for.


-A